How to love yourself without losing yourself š

Have you ever looked in the mirror and barely recognized the woman staring back at youānot physically, but emotionally? Maybe you once had goals, hobbies, confidence⦠but somewhere along the line, you gave so much of yourself to someone else that you forgot who you were.
Love isnāt meant to erase you. True love adds to your life, not takes from it. But many women, especially in our society, are taught to believe that being a āgood womanā means sacrificing everything for the sake of a relationship. Thatās not loveāthatās losing yourself.
So how do you love without losing your identity?
First, never abandon your passions. Whether itās writing, dancing, learning, or building a careerāthose things made you you long before he came into the picture. Donāt let love silence your purpose.
Second, speak your truth. A relationship where you constantly silence your needs just to keep peace is not peaceāitās quiet suffering. Love thrives in honesty, not fear.
Third, set boundaries. Not every ānoā is rejection. Sometimes itās protection. If someone truly cares, they will respect your space, your voice, and your growth.
And if youāve already lost yourself? Forgive yourself. Weāve all been thereāgiving too much, too fast, too blindly. But the beautiful thing about life is that you can always come back to yourself. Start small. Do one thing each day that makes you happy. Write your thoughts. Take care of your body. Pray. Journal. Heal.
You are allowed to love deeply, but you are not required to lose yourself to do it.
š¬ Sis, you are enough. Whole. Beautiful. Worthyājust as you are.
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